Question by : My boyfriend got a job offer in Texas and wants me to go with him.?
My boyfriend is a fairly sucessful guy. He has a stable job that he enjoys. He’s just bought a house, and has a few cars, and all-in-all seems quite content. I am 11 years younger and am just out of school. 3 months ago I was blessed with a job that I can see growing into a career – it pays enough to keep me going, and I plan on going back to school at night for my law degree.
But last night my boyfriend asks me if I’ve ever been to Texas. I laughed and said, “God no, why would I ever want to go to Texas?” He then explains to me that two days ago he got a job offer for more money in San Antonio. He mentioned that I might go with him if he decides to take it.
His Position: The job is something he’d enjoy. It pays more, and it’s in a cheaper area (we live in a large east-coast city). He looked at some real estate, and for $ 50,000 less than he paid for his 3br home here, he could get a 4br with a pool, walk-in freezer and solar energy there. It’s a few hours from New Orleans, which he loves. Granted, he still has opportunities to be upwardly mobile in his current position.
My Position: I have moved, literally, every 4 years of my life. I’ve never lived in one house longer than 4 years, and I’ve lived in 8 states in my 22 years of life. In most cases, several houses in each state. I’ve moved because I was following a man – my father. I didn’t have a choice as a child. I’ve been on my own for less than a year now and I just got this great job in a really tough economy.
I want to go to law school. I could do this in Texas, granted. But I wouldn’t ever want to stay in Texas – I decided a long time ago that no man would ever make me live in a place I didn’t want to. Texas is probably the last place on earth I’d ever voluntarily go. The only way I could agree to it is if it were only temporary, until my schooling was over. But then I’d be living out of suitcases for the next few years anyway, and I’m so tired of that.
I love my boyfriend. And not to sound callous, but if I move in with him I can donate a lot more of my money toward law school. I’ve always wanted to get a little apartment in the city but for this man and law school, I’d be willing to move in with him here. But Texas? God, it would be hell and I’d be miserable!
What do I do?
Best answer:
Answer by Peener
lol
give him teh secks
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